Love & Sex

What to do when financially supporting your partner comes at a heavy cost to you? You need to set boundaries. You’re in the relationship even given the financial hardship, so I’d say you love him. You’ve probably struggled this long because you want to help him, support him, and show him you’re committed to the relationship. Or you’re...Read More!

Spring has finally arrived and warmer temps are upon us. As we shed our layers of clothing and spend more time outside, it’s easy to find someone new … or find something fun to do with your latest online cutie. Whether you’re a seasoned dating pro or newly single, this time of year can be exciting for those looking for love or just a little...Read More!

How do you handle a boyfriend who is upset at you for sharing relationship issues with girlfriends? Walking the line between respecting his privacy and your need to share is tricky. Personally, I relish sharing the private moments of my relationship with my girlfriends. I try to share the good and the bad. Generally, partners are normally fine...Read More!

Single life is hard. I mean, it’s great being independent women and all, but that freedom at times gets a little lonely. And it’s always those times, when we are feeling down and out, unattractive and contemplating life as an old maid when NO ONE IN THE WORLD TEXTS YOU. Especially not any attractive guys you might be interested in. Did they...Read More!

My dad once told me that whether a relationship dies or blossoms is largely due to you and your partner’s level of agreement across three issues: kids, finances, and sex. I get it; disagreements over these issues can cause nasty fights that end the relationship. But I think abiding by my dad’s rule of thumb is limiting. There are ways to...Read More!

Is it even possible? You know. Sleeping with someone and developing no sort of feelings for them whatsoever? At one point or another, whether it was once upon a time, or for others, the present state of mind, this is about as ideal as it gets. Great sex, and no complications. No titles, no expectations, and no rules. Just great sex. With the...Read More!

My reflexive response is “no.” It’s definitely not acceptable to ask your partner to make such a sacrifice.  But to really figure it out, let’s rewind. What are your partner’s motivations for maintaining the relationship with this past romantic partner? Option A: She’s one of his best friends and though it is clear that they are not...Read More!

While most people tend to couple up during the winter season, my life transpired in cruel opposition to nature this year: I’ve been going through a breakup. Not just any breakup, but one of those walloping ones, where your heart doesn’t just get a little bruised, but full on assaulted. He was the first man to inspire in me thoughts of a...Read More!

Ladies, let’s face it, at the end of the day no matter what you tell yourself, size matters. Men who have it know it, you can sense their confidence in the bedroom and in all other facets of life. They have never had the unpleasant experience of a lady friend reaching down there and being disappointed. However, men on the opposite end of the...Read More!

When you see ads for online dating, there are always a lot of glowing smiles, and yes, one out of every five relationships starts online. But just because dating is thriving on the interwebs doesn’t mean it’s any less a jungle than when IRL (in real life). While you shouldn’t go in with low expectations, be prepared: you’re going to...Read More!